For many people, the holiday season brings warmth, celebration, and connection. For survivors who have recently left an abusive relationship, this time can feel complicated. Traditions from past years may stir up difficult memories, and the pressure to feel joyful can feel distant. At RESPOND, we see these experiences every day. We walk alongside survivorsRead More
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Giving Thanks, Giving Back
Thanksgiving is almost here, and at RESPOND, we’re thinking about all the ways people show up for survivors, sometimes in ways you can see, and sometimes in ways you can’t. Some of our favorite examples? A turkey donation so a family in shelter can sit down to a warm meal. A small, hand-knit baby blanketRead More
Moving Forward Looks Different for Everyone (and how RESPOND counselors walk beside you)
At RESPOND, we know that life after abuse is complicated. It can bring relief, sadness, hope, and confusion sometimes all at once. There’s no single way to move forward, and the path rarely feels linear. Many survivors describe feeling waves of emotions: relief, sadness, hope, confusion, and everything in between. This range of emotions isn’tRead More
Why We Do This Work: Reflections from RESPOND staff
We asked RESPOND staff members to tell us why they do the work they do. Their answers reminded us that behind every program, every call, and every shelter stay, are people who care deeply, and who bring heart, skill, and dedication to every survivor they support. “I do this work because I love seeing ourRead More
The Overlap Between Domestic Violence and the Child Welfare System
When we talk about domestic violence, it’s important to remember what it really is: a pattern of behavior used to gain power and control in an intimate relationship. That control can take many forms—physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual, and financial are just a few. Abuse gradually strips away a survivor’s resources, health, freedom, and sense ofRead More
Why Sponsorships Matter Now More Than Ever for Small Nonprofits
At RESPOND, we often talk about how every gift makes a difference. And it truly does. But when it comes to major fundraising events like our Gala, sponsorships can be the difference between a modest net profit and a transformational one. For small nonprofits, sponsorships are so much more than a logo on a programRead More
A Day in the Life of a RESPOND SAFER Counselor
The Survivors of Abuse Feeling Empowered for Re-entry (SAFER) program is a one-of-a-kind partnership between RESPOND and the Suffolk County Sheriff’s Department, supporting women who are incarcerated or detained as they process experiences of domestic violence and plan for a safe, stable place to go once they’re released. My name is Kahdijah, and I amRead More
Behind the Support Line
At RESPOND, we recognize that it is never as simple as “just leaving.” Our support line is a resource for any survivor, confronting any kind of abuse, from any relationship. As counselors managing the support line, we know there are innumerable barriers to fleeing violence. Survivors often face financial instability, the risk of homelessness, lackRead More
The Role of the Board: Dedicated Leaders Driving Change
When people think of nonprofit leadership, many picture the board of directors—but what that board actually does can be a mystery. Who are they? Why are they there? And what do they do? The truth is, a board’s role looks different in every organization. It often depends on the needs of the CEO and theRead More
Domestic Violence in the Digital Age: The Rise of Tech-Enabled Abuse
According to the National Network to End Domestic Violence, 97% of U.S. domestic violence programs report that survivors have experienced abuse involving technology. Tech-enabled abuse refers to the use of technology to exert power, control, and intimidation over someone. As technology becomes more advanced and accessible for more people, abusers can have more ways ofRead More









